This is the new doorway process that is taking us into unknown territory and learning
There are very few people on our planet who are awake and aware and ready to face their challenge as we are only a few years into the wave of the Aquarius Age.
Most people are still playing the blame game and believing we are all the same and see the world through the same eyes.
The general consensus is that we “should” do xyz to be a “good” person and that there is a competition on as to the way forward to be the best of the best of the best.
In schools in the Uk this is very much the ethos generally and pupils are deemed to be “better” if they behave a certain way and are bribed into conforming.
If they show any emotion at school ….
which is a naturally ocurring phenomena and highlighting whether they are following their well-being or not……
What are our future generations learning?
Pretty much the same old same for generations.
What examples are we setting?
and as of yet there is nothing being developed in the way of education in the mainstream….that I know of and please let me know if this is different for you….. about our emotions and how they are the most important guidance system we have
The messages are getting louder though as many children are developing “disorders” “behavioural difficulties” and the like
As in the majority of our society the general consensus is to blame substances, parents, physical illness, media etc for this
instead of looking at a solution based focus
which is to become very aware of our emotions
how we create them inside of us as a reaction to a trigger outside of us
based on our inner beliefs
to take responsibility for our internal sat nav system
and create new ways of relating
This is a challenge in a system that does not cater for the individual and free spirit
in my personal experience very little has changed in the past 50 years in education in the UK
Working with young people who have been affected by anger issues in their home and again at school
young people are still being managed outside of the mainstream.
I believe this is the foundation of dyslexia,dispraxia and conditions like ADHT
They are emotional defence mechanisms.
Our most important life tool of emotional guidance for personal awareness is overlooked and ignored
as it is not in the interests of our money making society to be well.
We have a huge system that is geared to us being in need of medication
living in a limbo land of the pleasure bubble that does nothing to evolve us
it keeps us on the treadmill of not looking at what is giving rise to this pain.
I have worked with people who have been on Lithium for 40 years for one emotional outburst.
Paolo Coehlo was institutionalised by his parents because he was “different” and wanted to become a writer.
What we could be doing instead is listening to the truth that is being communicated by our young people so we can all evolve
and create a generation of humanity that have let go of dishonest living.
To do that the adults involved are at a great place if they are resonating with a clear channel.
I have worked with many organisations that are connected to young people and have great intentions.
Most people who are wanting to create change are part of the energy dynamic and this is where the tricky bit lies.
We are all creating our world based on our beliefs and unless we change our beliefs then the world doesn’t change.
If we carry on doing what we have always done and expecting the outcome to be different….
that is insane – Albert Einstein
I know many therapists who believe that they change the world by changing others and do not do any personal inner work.
What is that all about?
What inner work have you done on yourself today to create change?
How are you setting an example ?
This is the most fundemental step that we all have to take if we truly want to see a change.
Every day we have a new beginning and a new possibility .
If we are creating that new beginning in ourselves then we create a clear space.
Whatever is showing up for us today
It is our resonance
It is our mirror
It is a reflection of our life experience in some way
Many people have not cleared enough past issues yet to see how this reflection is not “bad” it isn’t part of the blame game and it isn’t a way of putting yourself or anyone else down.
If we are feeling that then here is where a thread of creating love can start.
Instead of believing everything we see in others is something inherently bad about ourselves
we can see this is a learned conditioning
here’s the paradox
the blame game itself is simply something we use as a deflection so that we do not feel responsible
it’s an ego defence mechanism designed to keep us emotionally safe
and it is often used by adults who have grown up in a narcissistic behavioural family
to avoid focusing on looking at what is really going on in that family
and how to take action to get out of relating in that way
which can be very sticky when it is what we have known our whole life.
It starts early on with the child hurting itself and the mother/father/carer blaming the object rather than accepting the situation
and letting the child learn that life hurts at times, that’s ok and crying is ok because that helps the pain be felt and expressed and released.
How often do we shut up our children because we don’t like how their emotion affects us, affects other people.
Here is the merry go round we now find ourselves revisiting.
All the times in the past when our inner child has been shut up.
Many of my clients come to me with a simple goal – public speaking for example.
We start with what they want to achieve and how they feel.
When we use emotional freedom technique we tap and talk about how they are feeling right now.
Then their mind opens up as to what is stopping that happening now…..
and we time travel back to anything that has happened in the past
where they have experienced a hurt around that
such as when they were eight and were ridiculed by a teacher in class
or they had a death in the family and no one was there for them emotionally
or they were always told they were stupid for speaking out against other family members…..
this isn’t about blaming anyone it’s about letting go of needing to do that because we are ready to feel it now, let it go and move on
it’s about letting that hurt out that has been within all that time and creating new ways of relating now
so it’s safe to speak now
When we do that new things are possible now
and we heal our families past
and we create a new family belief system now
and the ripples go out in our cosmic vibe.
The only way we can create change is to be the change
by truly meeting our own challenge and speaking out for new relationships
with our emotional selves
By becoming a clear channel ourselves
Everyone can learn how to tap for themselves.
It isn’t a quick fix for life
It’s learning a way of being and creating peace for ourselves each day
Many people who experience it expect a quick fix like popping a pill because that is what they are used to
It is powerful and it works when used in a holistic way
We are our own healer and whilst other people can help us do this it is us that creates the change
How many EFT people out there have tapped for themselves today?
Whenever we have an emotional issue about anything we have a history with that.
If you have an emotional reaction to anything I have said today and/or you feel that you have an issue with me because of that…..
Here is what I offer you
You do not know me 🙂
You know a pattern match for me, what you believe I represent
here is my gift for you today.
Focus on how you feel
Tap on that
Follow it back through time
See where it goes in your past
and let it go.
Then see how you feel about me.
I am simply a messenger.
Your choice whether to shoot me or hear the message 🙂
This is the gift we all bring for each other.
When we let go of all the hurts in the past
we are clear and free to be exactly who we want to be right now
We are open pure and clear beings of love in action
and this is reflected in our law of attraction.
The secret is in us.
Love to your love vibes today.