Red Electric Dragon to Yellow Solar Sun 20 Step Code 5 ~ Mastery process

 

Red Electric Dragon ~ Alchemy ~ mastery ~ stepping through the Gateway of Light

 

Today the Sun is in Capricorn and the Moon

has just gone into waxing in Taurus as I write this 

This is a mastery process

We are in the fifth 20 day process of Red Dragon to Yellow Sun

 

 

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This is the mastery process 

This is the Overtone 

As we are in North Node in Cancer now this is the key to be focusing

on

until May 2020

Here is an article by Astrobutterfly

Making our way towards the full moon in Leo 

and 

a Lunar Eclipse 

Heart opening potentiality

This is a profound energy building time of year to have this process

What we do in this time

will be very powerful for our personal alchemy 

I will start to map these codes now of 20 steps 

This is the Alchemy Code of 

Blue Storm Wavespell

this is my Wavespell ~ day 9 is my sign

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It is time to learn how to parent ourselves 

time to heal all our mothering issues

instead of trying to manipulate and control women

because we are afraid 

because of all our primordial fears and trust issues

that create delusions and illusions

based on past patterns

Healing the wound ends the projection and

allows deep love and intimacy

By the time we get to that golden gateway in

Yellow Human Wavespell

Who will we be ?

Lovers or fighters ?

Let’s be the love we want to see

by loving ourselves

and

making healthy choices

 

Pic by Klimt 

 

 

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White Solar Wizard ~Goddess Gateway

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All of the artwork on this page is by Maya Telford 

I absolutely love her work ~ webpage here

White Solar Wizard

This is the Wavespell of the process

that allows

Goddess Code to be embodied 

At the time of writing on Monday January 08

during this spiral the

Astrology is off the chart

for activating the patriarchal wounding

 

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It is an intense time especially for women

who have experienced abusive behaviour from their family

as part of ancient patterns in the ancestral lineage

There has been unspeakable cruelty

to those who match the wild woman pattern

who does not conform …

We are giving voice to it now

The silence is over 

We are feeling the heart break now

of being projected upon

by those in our circle

who will not own their fear

who seek to vilify and blame

rather than speak truthfully

about what is going on for them

and

are in denial

This is a necessary experiential step

for our understanding

of what came into being

and

for what reason 

all the old worlds and old ways

all the behaviour from those who repeated abuse

without questioning it

without consciousness

until there was enough of that experience

For some of us

we are at that place of

enough of that experience now

and

we are ready to let go of being told

that there is something wrong with us

because we refuse to conform to a sick way of living in society

 

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In the past 9 days

we have been through a process

A New Moon in Capricorn at 15 degrees:

CAPRICORN 15 
A woman wearing a necklace of skulls. 
Feminine power of the deepest kind. Ancient, impressive, and formidable. Standing for the Dark Goddess. Authoritative, proud, and knowledgeable. Can be attracted to pouring on the power and becoming personally identified with dominant behaviors. Lack of compassion, very little forgiveness. Not generous-spirited. Imperious, demanding, and not to be denied. If sparked by wakeful seeing–redemptive and cauterizingly renewing. But if captured by old pictures–autocratic, ideological, and retaliatory. The perfect soul-gift for those with pure intention. Otherwise, a scourge.

 

 

The degree in Cancer is :

CANCER 15 
A boarded-up doorway that leads to another realm. 
The soul, as divided as it can be between two diametrically opposed realities. Radical karmic crossroads. What is preferred, what you have a taste for and an affinity with is any known familiar world within which you belong and are not questioned. What you feel afraid of, forbidden from entering, are the vast, unknown worlds which partake of infinity. If given your way, the densely familiar worlds will surround and protect you for extended cycles. Spirit here must wait until all personal dramas are exhausted. Yet spirit here is not patient, and subtly curses your mundane endeavors for being so trivial. The resolution of this extreme polarization will require drastic self-loss and many subtle permutations to pass through in order to become whole again, when your karma has split you down the middle and left you there to work it out for yourself.

 

A Solar Eclipse in Capricorn ~ the first of 3 eclipses in Capricorn this year

bringing discipline and inner work to the table ~ the next mastery course will be in Capricorn after this transit in Sagittarius and so optimum that we work with this healing truth gateway to the max ~ the 9th Sign brings deep star forging 

Today this was the Astrology:

Trancendental Karmic Astrology 

Mercury – Mars cardinal square, Astraea – North Node water trine

Only two days ago, Mercury entered Capricorn (serious, structured thoughts) and today it is clashing with Mars in its own sign (militant self-assertion), creating the “perfect” energy pattern for wounding through words. You may experience in a very direct way how much power uttered words carry, especially if the 4th degree is prominent in your chart. In the meanwhile, Astraea in Pisces (emotional karma-breaking) is again (or still) teaming up with the North Node in Cancer, and I am emphasizing it because it is an important karmic astrological placement. The point of the chosen destiny in this sign is helping commitments around family issues, as well as regarding your homeland or nation. The asteroid of karma-breaking is bringing new viewpoints to the surface, water is the element of emotions, and trines fill the space time moment with blessings and harmony. The aspect is forming at 26-27th degrees of the signs, and will remain within orb for at least two-three days.

 

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The next step tomorrow is

Blue Planetary Eagle 

Seeing the manifestation of where we are as a planetary server 

As we become clearer we change the world

Job done 

Is it easy to do ?

No not at first ~ you have to retrain your ego to want to feel unpleasant feelings ~

it is worth it ~ we become free of the old out of balance patriarchal way of being We are worth it ~

time to get with the Cosmic programme

and

be love again

being free of this madness

liberation from living from shadow teachings

Lots of love beautiful creators of the new world 

What you have experienced today

will be key

for the new cycle starting in July 

When I was working with an old friend today

It was the moon degree of my Lilith in Aquarius at 4 degrees :

AQUARIUS 4 
Many fireflies at dusk. 
You become aware all at once of staggering things, of astounding things, of world-shattering things. States of revelation. You are being called inwardly to shake off the slumber of the common day and to heed the stirrings of the future. Capable of bounding leaps, your are infused with a spirit of new beginnings. Especially strongly drawn toward altered states and threshold awareness. You’ve been brought to places where all of the shared assumptions and ideologies become pale and lifeless, and something other sparks recognition and pursuit. Collectively inspired to find alternatives, to seek a vision, to gather with those who are similarly touched, you are in on the ground floor of new movements and innovative discoveries. And full of wonder and awe at the process, and at a whole way of things in worlds such as this one.

This is the current transit of Lilith until May ~ here is an article by Ruby Slipper

 

Lilith transit around 8 months ~ like the Venus pattern of the Wavespell 

 

Epiphany

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pic by Maya Telford ~ We 3 Queens of Orient are

Today on January 06

It is the Day of the Epiphany

In the Mayan Wavespell on January 06 2019

It is a powerful day :

Red Galactic Skywalker 

It has been a revelatory few days for me with lots of magical learning

Lots of experiences around what I would like to create to share my work

Lots of practical solutions coming up for all manner of things

and

not even into the New Moon energy fully yet 😉

How about you ?

 

New Moon in Dark Goddess energy

at

15 degrees Capricorn with a Solar Eclipse

CAPRICORN 15
A woman wearing a necklace of skulls.
Feminine power of the deepest kind. Ancient, impressive, and formidable. Standing for the Dark Goddess. Authoritative, proud, and knowledgeable. Can be attracted to pouring on the power and becoming personally identified with dominant behaviors. Lack of compassion, very little forgiveness. Not generous-spirited. Imperious, demanding, and not to be denied. If sparked by wakeful seeing–redemptive and cauterizingly renewing. But if captured by old pictures–autocratic, ideological, and retaliatory. The perfect soul-gift for those with pure intention. Otherwise, a scourge.

 

Interesting opposite to that :

CANCER 15 
A boarded-up doorway that leads to another realm. 
The soul, as divided as it can be between two diametrically opposed realities. Radical karmic crossroads. What is preferred, what you have a taste for and an affinity with is any known familiar world within which you belong and are not questioned. What you feel afraid of, forbidden from entering, are the vast, unknown worlds which partake of infinity. If given your way, the densely familiar worlds will surround and protect you for extended cycles. Spirit here must wait until all personal dramas are exhausted. Yet spirit here is not patient, and subtly curses your mundane endeavors for being so trivial. The resolution of this extreme polarization will require drastic self-loss and many subtle permutations to pass through in order to become whole again, when your karma has split you down the middle and left you there to work it out for yourself.

These are taken from Inside degrees fabulous website 

On a deeper structural level :

Mindfire ~ Dane Rudhyar

PHASE 285 (CAPRICORN 15°): IN A HOSPITAL, THE CHILDREN’S WARD IS FILLED WITH TOYS.

KEYNOTE: The responsibility of society to ensure the welfare and total health of the new generation.

The socio-cultural process must look to the future as well as to the past. It has created conditions which may harm the children who will carry forward its work, and it must try to repair these negative conditions through love as well as through physical care. In personal life, the individual should take great care of his fresh intuitions and his dreams of future growth. They are often fragile developments which the pressures of everyday life can easily distort or destroy.

This is the last stage of Scene Nineteen, which began with a powerful claim for socio-political power. The exercise of such a power can indeed produce social conditions which endanger the healthy and spiritual unfoldment of a community, and especially of its children. There is therefore constant need forTENDER CARE as well as skill to neutralize the destructive tensions of social living.

I had an amazing cookie trail yesterday 

I learned that the lingua franca in the Mediterranean and Middle East

around the time of Christ was Koine ~

Greek because of Alexander the Great’s influence 

Read more here 

I also found this painting of Giotto ~ I studied History of Art at school 

GIOTTO: ADORATION. Adoration of the Magi. Fresco, c1305, from the Scrovegni Chapel, Padua, by Giotto.

Pic by Giotto ~ The Adoration of The Magi 

 

Interesting story about Ursury behind that painting here 

Also visible Halley’s Comet  ~ article here 

More about the Chapel here 

Amazing article about The Magi here 

 

Shows how information often gets distorted and lost in translation ~ literally 

which can sometimes be “allowed” to happen in order to manipulate the masses

Today is a very important day for the individual

on the Gregorian Calendar every year

as The Magi is the wise soul within us revealing truth ~

when we heal we access our source code and connection

It was originally wise people

who were Sourcer ~ers and experts in the Art of Astrology and Astronomy  ~

some key planetary personal cycles in the article 

On the Wavespell spiral this time around 

we can see how we are integrating the

Red Skywalker Wavespell today 

What needs to end in our personal world so that we can live ?

The Red Skywalker Wavespell took place over Christmas

from the

17th of December to the 29th of December 2018

In Astrology I found a lovely

epiphany today 

The definition of

The Part of Fortuna in our natal chart

by Steven Forrest Astrology :

Our Ascendant is our Self Actualisation

Our Sun is our essence ~ the core of what we are 

When our Sun ~ our essence

is in Alignment

with our Ascendant  ~ our expression

and

there is no difference  between what we are on the inside

and

what we are expressing on the outside

and

living

then we have reached full integration

total authenticity

and

how would that feel ?

Living totally from truth and congruency of the soul embodied

This is the “goal” of our journey on earth 

The Part of Fortuna in the chart reveals the process

The Moon I believe reveals the lessons we have to learn

that are being unveiled ~

the core childhood ancestral patterning we are here to heal 

My Part of Fortuna is Libra at 13 Degrees :

LIBRA 13 
Men and women in white towels in a steam bath talking and sweating profusely. 
When you are personally ill, disattuned, all broken up, you can find a kind of healing and transformation by exposing yourself to shared experiences that give you a boost and let you release what has gotten you to this point. You will find others in similar places to your own. Rituals and styles of change, of opening, of becoming somebody new can become a way of life in themselves–being thrust into collective cycles, taking on collective karmas, immersing yourself in what is going on with everybody. Feeling it all, sensing what it is like to be human, to be wounded, to be searching. Alive to the multiple chemistries, along an open-ended pathway. Yet you also tend to loop back, to grow attached to the way it seems and to be naive to what you are really doing after all. Experiences and processes must be springboards into really becoming free. And perhaps also by rooting into a place where love is born, out of whose source you can give so abundantly and be sustained in the universal flow, as one who kept at it until all the semblances gave way to the adventure authentically embraced.

In my 8th house ~ Integration ~ Scorpio’s home 

My Moon is in Taurus at 8 degrees in my 2nd house :

TAURUS 8 
A very complicated hedge maze. 
Self-confounding. Fascinated, you are engrossed by the fabulous disattunement you seem to be stuck with. Suspended, enchanted, held fast by ancient errors, rendered safe or innocuous. Being held down by an old curse and not being able to find any way out of it. Nothing comes together. Meanwhile, you are entertained by myriad factors as diversions, living out secondary circuits, trying to be content. You’re good at reality adjustment, practiced in the art of making it work somehow, but deeply frustrated, profoundly alienated, and existentially doubting just about everything in sight. Waiting as patiently as you can for something to shift somewhere, anywhere. And becoming quite witty and bemused, with a biting edge that says “it is not funny.”

Hence my work revealed ~ illumination ~

key to becoming free

I love these amazing cookie trails 

Lots of love with your day of Magic

The Light is returning

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Pic By Amanda Clark

Free Webinar ~ Initiation

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Free Webinar 

Yellow Resonant Human 

A Galactic Portal Day

The first New Moon of the Gregorian Calendar is a big one with a strong message
It is also a Solar Eclipse

with lots of power structure

going on in the starry skies

Initiation

Kali energy ~ reclaiming our soul energy through healing

It arrives in the early hours of

06 January 2019

In the Mayan Calendar today

it is a portal day of learning for the human being

Yellow Resonant Human

Please join me to learn more about the Cosmic Codes coming in at this time and where you are being influenced

There is no pre ~ requisite knowledge of the Mayan Calendar

or

Astrology required

If you have that ~ fabulous too

You know what has felt good for you specifically since the Creating Heaven on Earth process began

on the 17th of December ~ now we are coming to the time to integrate it
Be Do Have

The first part of the webinar is about me sharing some cosmic code information and how to use it for our personal transformation

The second part is all about you sharing yourself with other people in the group if you wish to
Take part in whatever way you choose

This will also be recorded

This Webinar launches my new monthly groups of

working with the moon

to create a powerful conscious intent

It is free ~

to allow access to all

free of money constraints

and

to allow sharing of these frameworks so you get to experience me and my work

This may be a brand new way of seeing your life on one level and a re~awakening on another ~ a remembering

My key focus in this life is to be part of the shift away from money as the primary focus and motivation in this world

It has become a God in terms of the ego mask
It is important for each one of us to be able to sustain life on earth and thrive here ~ we do that with money in part right now

One of deepest pathologies is the misuse of power with money and this goes back to the initiation of the patriarchal expansion
cycle

How it has become a definition of “success” in the world despite clearly revealing deep shadow ~ key for our awareness

We have also often sacrificed our soul to earn it and been in toxic relationship to have it in some way

We have seen the impact of this imbalance and deception and it’s culmination

We have lived it’s learning

Now it is time to feel and heal

and truly bring our gift to the world

from a clear balanced place of integrity within

We are embodying the change and learning to walk our talk

Time for the return to balance of the sacred feminine

She Who Is

We came here at this time to change our world by changing ourselves

I hope you will join me and your tribe to initiate a powerful intention for our journey this year

Creating your Cosmic Code Resources:

If you want to know your Mayan Sign here is a decoder:
http://www.starroot.com/cgi/daycalc.pl

If you want to create an Astrological Chart here is a guide of how to ~ this will show you where Capricorn is in your chart:

https://www.wikihow.com/Create-an-Astrological-Chart

For more info please contact me :

Jo Kenworthy
07772 877028
01458 850769

www.flowwithjo.com

Webinar links:

Part 1 Cosmic Codes at 7pm London time ~ 40 minutes
https://zoom.us/j/510467043

20 minutes break in between to tune in to what you are wanting to share

Part 2 Sharing our experience at 8pm London time ~ 40 minutes

https://zoom.us/j/150437547

You will need to download Zoom to take part:

https://www.zoom.us/download

Tzol Kin Meaning

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A meaning for the name :

Tzol Kin

I wrote about this many years ago

but cannot find it so far in the labyrinth of my blog.

When I first started creating my blog

I wrote a lot …

without knowing exactly how to use the software templates ~ still learning 😉

The important thing was I got started as it was time

and

all the content that I wrote back then

I am accessing now and it is teaching me now ~

my higher self  guiding me with knowledge I don’t yet embody

This is a cornerstone code of the

Red Skywalker process

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that is beginning today

as I write this article

This was the process when I was first initiated at a workshop

when I bought my  first

Wavespell Calendar

on

2/11/2011 ~

key to

Thoth process

and

Libraries of Consciousness 

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This is also key to the gif at the start of the article

The eye can literally only see what it has consciousness of in terms of perception 

Here is an interpretation of what

The Tzol Kin is all about 

from a book :

Converting words:

Maya in the Age of the Cross

by William F Hanks 

 

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Here is the link

 

Tzol (ex 6.6)

A slightly different perspective on reduccion is provided by the verb root Tzol , which is glossed in two ways 

To arrange (objects in space)

and 

To recount (words or events in language)

The verbal sense appears to be primary

for the simple transitive stem tzol(ic),

whereas the spatial arrangement sense emerges in derived forms

tzol cul , tzol + sit , sit in order .

tzolaan , tzol + stative ,’be in order’

tzolal (tzol + intrans suffix ) ‘place oneself in order’

tzol ol (tzol + heart  ‘place oneself in order (especially morally )

and 

tzolanil (tzol + stative + il ) , be ordered ‘in a manner’

All of these are highly transparent grammatical constructions in which the parts are readily segmented and associated with distinct meanings.

The two senses clearly have in common, the concept of putting objects, words or bodies in proper order.

From the verbal meaning of ‘tell in order’ there is a minor extension to

(ah) tzol than, agent + tzol + language ‘interpret(er)’

The latter applies to interlingual interpretation

and interlingual explanation,

both of which are defined by the production of metalinguistic speech

that recapitulates other speech 

 

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pic by Chie Yoshie

 

 

My perspective :

To place oneself in order morally

using timelines to

recapitulate past wounding experiences and

create a new family story

free and clear of old corruption

 

 

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Pic by Chie Yoshie 

Winter Solstice Patterns

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Winter Solstice Patterns 

The transition pattern was on December 21 2012

The start of a new cycle for humanity

to be

Conscious Dreamers

This is Red Rhythmic Moon Day 9 

which is a human evolution portal day 

coming into balance

with the returning sacred feminine

in a very powerful

13 day processs Wavespell

of

Yellow Seed 

which takes us out of the centre

of the

Tzol Kin 

and

reveals our true star seed

at that point in time 

 

 

 

This is my tribal pattern ~

the role of this tribe

is to mine new tunnels for humanity 😉 

 

 

Red Earth ~ Code 17 ~ Uranus 

White Wind ~ code 2 ~ Uranus 

Blue Hand ~ code 7 ~ Earth 

Yellow Human ~ code 12 ~ Earth

Combined code : 38 = 11 = Blue Monkey ~

letting go of childhood wounding to be transparent and free to become the divine child Christ Consciousness

 

 

 

 

It is also connected to :

Paramahansa Yogananda 
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paramahansa_Yogananda

White Spectral Wind

His Master :

Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri :

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swami_Sri_Yukteswar_Giri

Red Resonant Earth

The structure of

Creating Heaven

on Earth is revealed through this amazing book:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autobiography_of_a_Yogi

and

The Self Realisation Fellowship :

https://www.yogananda-srf.org/

 

 

 

 

2012 Shift Code 

 

 

2012 Blue Crystal Hand ~ here is a blog about this ~ Yellow Warrior Wavespell

 

This Cycle began in 2001 ~

Yellow Magnetic Human 

The manifestation of human beings conscious awareness over the past 39 years 

The last cycle began in 1962 

People born in the 60’s in particular will see their human being cycle 

2012 to 2018 :

 

2013 ~ Yellow Cosmic Human ~ Yellow Sun Wavespell

 

2014 ~ start of a new 13 Year Cycle ~

Red Magnetic Earth 

2015 ~ Year of new learning White Lunar Wind  ~ Red Dragon Wavespell

2016 ~ Year of Alchemy ~ Blue Electric Hand ~  Red Serpent Wavespell

2017 ~ Year of the structure ~ Yellow Self Existing Human ~ Red Moon Wavespell

2018 ~ Year of Mastery ~ Red Overtone Earth ~ Red Skywalker Wavespell

White Wizard Planetary Energy

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White Wizard Planetary Energy 

 

White Wizard is a planetary evolution energy

It is a mastery sign and one of the seven solar seals 

It is code 14

The Moon Goddess Ix Chel 

This is the essence of human evolution at the moment 

and

the return of the sacred feminine 

White Wizard is the second wavespell

in the initiating

Red Castle of Red Dragon

Each time the spiral begins we have 13 days on initiation

This is followed by the refinement energy of White Wizard

Here we see how we are allowing the magic of the Universe to flow through us 

How we have let go of our conditioning

to allow our spirit

to influence our daily lives through intuition

This is a proactive process paradoxically

White Wizard is influence by the asteroid belt

bringing new consciousness

for our learning now

We are moving away from old scripts of co dependency 

Red Moon Planetary Energy

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Red Moon is the 9th Mayan Sign

It is the last scroll of the 260 day process

in the

Green Castle of the heart

It is also a 13 Moon calendar 

It is the Gateway energy and step to our awakening

into

return to balance of the Sacred Feminine within each human being 

Embodiment of the feminine through healing the wounding

over

thousands of years

The feminine aspect allows the human being to receive 

This is the left hand side of the body

If we have issues around how we have been made to receive

in an out of balance and unloving way …

These require healing as a first step

Otherwise we are still living the energy and code of that way of being 

regardless of age 

regardless of intellectual knowing

This 9th step is a mastery process

As human beings we hold within us

a holographic projector

that creates our timeline

and

experience on planet earth

It is similar to a very complex computer programme 

The script for this programme is the next step of our ancestral story

that we are here

to go beyond by healing

Once a human being is aware of this holographic model

and

that their experience is partly under their control 

they can start to work

with creating consciously as a co creator 

Most of our lives we have created unconsciously

in order to learn that process

and

follow the path of our ancestors to know it 

The planet of Red Moon is Mercury

Messenger of our God and Goddess self 

The planetary transits in Mercury are key

Where Mercury is in your chart is key for you 

When a human starts to heal their fears

they heal their heart 

This transforms the holograph within them

and

As a result the emotions start to balance

The shadow starts to integrate

Without this emotional healing process

the emotional mind projects the past onto the present 

because this is it’s primary programming

It is attempting to read the future based on the past and this is a survival mechanism

so their daily experience also transforms

The original story is being brought to consciousness

and

the lessons learned at each healing 

Human beings relate to life and each other every day based on this mechanism 

Truly a person cannot be seen for who they really are when this is still running

They are seen as a reflection of the other person’s past in some way 

This often involves pre judging and scapegoating behaviour 

This is a distorted view

and

one that most of the population

is seeing and experiencing

at the moment

according to their

pre ordained timeline

that is crafted by the divine 

Blue Storm Planetary Energy

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Blue Storm Planetary Energy 

 

Blue Storm
Blue Storm is the mastery code of transformation

Blue Storm is code 19

Wavespell 7

It is in the White Castle of refinement

The planet is Pluto

Transformation of the shadow

and

the

Emotional Evolution time on planet earth

All our shadow experiences hold an emotional charge

unless they have been made conscious and healed

Then the Emotional Mind is freer of past trauma

This is a continual process

Using the analogy of a storm cycle is helpful 

When pressure builds up emotionally

like the weather

there is a temperature increase

there is an electrical charge building 

The charge grows stronger and seeks to be discharged ~ lightening 

It seeks to ground

to be earthed

The rain is released and the pressure

and

temperature drops

The human being cries and releases the emotion

and

feels cleansed and peaceful 

When a human being works on the emotional mind

and

releases past emotional trauma with attached emotions

there is integration and release into peace

There is a clear space within 

The eye of the storm 

The person is grounded and calm

Freer of triggers

In a wiser position as to what created the emotional wounding 

How to live differently in the world in a healthy relationship

and

lives that change

Emotionally aware 

Emotionally intelligent